All about the Love . . .
Elizabeth Esguerra Castillo
Elizabeth E. Castillo is a professional feature writer/journalist/blogger/international published author & poet/online English Instructor from the Philippines in Asia. Her articles and poems have appeared in international online magazines and printed publications. She has been featured in more than 30 international poetry anthologies both in the USA, UK, Canada, Africa and India and is currently working on upcoming anthologies which includes global charities.
Elizabeth is a member of the American Authors Association (AAA) and also a Contributing Editor for Inner Child the Magazine, USA. Her first international poetry book “Seasons of Emotions” by Destiny to Write Publications, UK was released on January 7th 2013. Her upcoming book “Inner Reflections of the Muse” will be published by Inner Child Press, USA.
She has garnered recognitions and awards some of which are: Second Place for “Author of the Year” at Destiny to Write Publications Poetry Awards 2013, UK and her book as Second Place also for “Book of the Year” as well as “Best New Comer” at the same awards. Her latest international awards include emerging as the Overall Winner at the recently held “Winning Strategies Magazine International Awards” (WISMIWA), USA recognizing her positive influence to her community as well as to people around the world through her works and another medal award as an “Inspirational Poet” given by the PENTASI B Historical Forum/World Poetry Celebration held at the National Museum of the Philippines, 2013.
The Age Excusitis Syndrome
By Elizabeth Esguerra Castillo
Get a hold of your life right now. Yes, right now! You say time is running out, slipping through your fingers like fine dusts but then what are you merely doing? Procrastinating over things you could do in the NOW, holding back yourself - waiting for the right time 'til your age catches up on you . Then again, you make awesome, out of this world EXCUSES - that you are already old for such things, that you can't have the stamina to engage in this and that activity.
"Age excusitis" a term used to refer to an alibi to postpone in attaining a dream or goal because of one's "age" as used by David Schwartz, the author of "The Magic Of Thinking Big." Each one of us have our own elusive dreams in life that we always wanted to achieve but then at times, we should blame our own selves too, why we never quite get around doing them - we simply avoid taking risks, some would rather play it safe and even tell themselves, "I can't do it!" without even giving themselves a first try.
This syndrome can be magnified in various aspects of one's life be it in one's career shift, going on an adventure travel, getting the body one is obsessing about, going back to school and even FALLING IN LOVE (ever heard of "we are neither too young or too old to fall in love" ?). According to Schwartz, at certain points of our lives, we tend to buy into that idea that we are either too old or it is too late to do something different other than staying put in our own comfort zone. And it's not just age but as well as social norms and other's perception of what our role in life should be that may influence our decisions.
NOTHING SHOULD STOP YOU FROM CHASING A DREAM. There is simply no age limit to go to the direction that you've always wanted. We can always reinvent ourselves and life has such an array of wide possibilities we can embark on. Part of us has this ageless mind ( no form no boundaries, no beginnings, no endings) that is beyond the physical aging process that is readily available if only we encourage ourselves to go and chase our own rainbows!
So whether you are in your 20's , 30's or pushing 40's or even beyond, you can jump-start on your new life ASAP! Maybe to some, they have unattainable dreams while they were still youngsters that even if they're grown older, they've made a pact ( like a business plan service) with themselves to fulfill them so they wouldn't have haunting regrets in their twilight years.While some start early in life reaching for their pots of gold, others are quite late bloomers but what matters is you gave yourself a chance to take on challenges in making your dreams come true.
Loving the Imperfect
By Elizabeth E. Castillo
This entry is inspired by Sam Keen's, author of Fire in the Belly, infamous quote "You come to love not by finding a perfect person but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly!".
I chanced about a video posted on one social networking site of a funeral ceremony (this might sound absurd), how the wife of the deceased in what seems to be a eulogy far different from the usual ones we hear and witness, described her "imperfect relationship" with her husband. The fights they had, the petty indifferences and perennial arguments; his disgusting ways but in the end she said that she had come to love him more despite of these imperfections. For he taught her how it is to truly accept and love a person authentically.
Maybe this goes hand in hand with what we call loving unconditionally. We do not just love the person merely because of his good qualities but as well as his frailties and obnoxious ways.
Sticking by your significant other even after seeing him go through his worst state could well be a sign of real love and commitment. No one was born perfect in this world and so one may find his/her "ideal girl/boy" in the shadow of someone but as time goes by, they would truly discover each other's quirks and annoying habits. We must then ask ourselves if we can tolerate or hold on to such indifferences long after the all-mushy honeymoon stage is over.
A couple must work through a relationship's varied turmoils, turbulence, disputes, dilemmas, detours in their otherwise wondrous if not a romance in utopia.
God created us humans with complex personalities so each individual is born unique with innate craziness and irksome habits. Head on collisions between couples, like a grill sand in their relationship may promise exquisite pearls of traits such as PATIENCE, PERSEVERANCE and PEACE. No relationship is perfect either and like a tandem bicycle in a box, each is left unassembled. The couple involved must work on it as a "team" despite each other's foibles.
Let me end up this post with another quote now from Jane Austen: "Perhaps it is our imperfections that make us so perfect for each other."
We Are But Pilgrims In This World
By Elizabeth E. Castillo
Have you ever asked yourself what's the purpose of your mere existence in this world? Have you ever wondered what's your true mission in this life? Life starts at your conception inside your mother's womb a wondrous miracle , life springs out of another being then comes the day you were born and your mom hears your very first cry as tears well up her eyes upon seeing your little countenance and fragile cute fingers. It is said that each and everyone of us have our own purposes here on earth - be it to touch other people's lives, to inspire others through your words or worthy causes organized; to love and be loved, to dance like there's no tomorrow; to weep and experience pain... all our paths are intertwining and in every step of the way through our journey, we meet at the crossroads...we are all connected in some ways...what one says or does affects or influences people around him.
Life is a journey - sometimes a short one and can be a long ride too...like pilgrims we travel through life's highways crossroads meeting at some point in time, must part at the corners as we meet other people again. This cycle goes on and on ‘til we reach our final destination.
Life is a constant change too..life is composed of different seasons, each one having distinct characteristics that we may either enjoy or hate...our pilgrimage through our entire lives entitles us to experience the joys and sorrows this world of us brings. A season of happiness - feeling as if you're on top of the world not mindful of those around you for you wanna feel that once in your life then suddenly without any clue, a season of grief, surmountable sadness - loss of a lover, family, a friend or loss of a precious job, your bread and butter...your whole world then suddenly collapses before you, as if the heavens closed its gate behind you and you were left stranded and helpless in a deserted island, a dark and lonely place...
Yes, it's hard to cope up with any loss especially if they mean everything to you...as the pilgrim goes through his journey, he might lose a thing or two along the way but must move on and carry on his travel and tell himself my time has come and finally reached my abode! These experiences taught me how to be a stronger pilgrim - to battle life's up and downs, to face any obstacle that would dare keep me from reaching to my own sacred place, also throw away the excess baggage or use a free online storage to dump them there ...til then my pilgrimage has just begun...
Love Always Wins by Elizabeth Esguerra Castillo
Love truly heals. Everything that’s being touched by LOVE emerges as something genuine, precious and stunning. Money is not that which makes the world goes round but LOVE!
With love, we are always winners in this game called life. We can never be defeated with love as our talisman from a cruel world which tries to divide us all.
Love makes us all winners for once we give in to its call; all negativities will be cast away. Imagine a world where hatred is the only one that reigns. Will you still be able to get a glimpse of the sweet smile of a fragile baby’s lips? Will you be able to get a warm embrace from your loving mother telling you that everything’s going to be alright?
Love is a universal expression why we are here on earth. The origin of humankind’s very existence. Our Master Creator made all of these things in the Universe because of LOVE!
Loving someone should not be viewed as a mere challenge for to love is a decision and not to be forced nor begged for. If we always choose love, we can win and overcome any battle we face.
Who loses because of love? No one for love itself is a winner. Love until it hurts they say. But despite the sufferings, love stands still amidst the sacrifices. The very moment we decide to love with all our heart, we become blind to every obstacle that comes our way. If our love is real and authentic, it patiently waits for the Perfect Divine Timing.
When all else fails, love remains steadfast and strong. Choose LOVE and you will always be a champion at all cause.
by Elizabeth Esguerra Castillo
“We have been created with a purpose – to love and be loved.”
Love heals. Love transforms. Do not underestimate the power of the healing touch of LOVE upon the weak, the weary, the sick, and the hopeless. After all, isn’t love the very reason why we were created? Look at all the beautiful things surrounding us, all of these originated from LOVE – the stunning nature masterpiece, the magnificent blue skies, the enchanting flowing rivers, the majestic high mountains, and the lovely chirping birds. These are all created out of the GREATEST LOVE of the Divine!
How does love transform? If you send out loving vibrations to the Universe, you will in turn attract love in your life and love will inspire you to become a better version of yourself not just for yourself but for your beloved. We can’t change people and how they feel or think about us but love can move mountains and create miracles beyond our imagination. Feeling love in itself is a miracle from the heavens! Love is not merely an ecstatic feeling or a raging emotion. It is a commitment to stand by your beloved not just during happy times but also during times of distress.
Love transforms people. While we know we can’t force someone to change, love will be the moving element to motivate people to change for the better – to fix himself and realize just how beautiful life is by experiencing LOVE!
Love transforms lives and the world. Love should be spread to attain harmony, unity, and peace to an ailing world. Love heals the wounded heart and the broken soul.
Love is the greatest gift you can offer to someone not just to your friends but as well as to your enemies. This world would be a better place is we stop the hate and say YES to LOVE!"I guess it's true that we can find many kinds of love in our lifetime but never the same kind of love twice. Love can be of different degrees and you can see yourself doing things for your beloved which you can't imagine doing for the others before. Yes, real love can transform you and mold you into a better person. If you could be the reason for someone else's creation of his better version and of him getting closer to God, that's one kind of love which is not just based on emotions or feelings but of commitment. Commitment that against all odds, you will stand by him."
The Waiting Game
by Elizabeth Esguerra Castillo
There is a predestined time for everything here on Earth. A Perfect Divine Time for wonderful things to unfold, for flowers to blossom and for love to develop. We always hear this famous cliché: “Beautiful things happen to those who wait.” And with this in mind, patience would be a great virtue to possess during this waiting period.
Whether it is the right time to achieve our dreams, the right time to start a new business, or the right time to get involved again in a new relationship after a failed romance. Rushing things would not do us any good in any endeavor we are in for the end result would just disappoint us or would just leave us frustrated if we will not be able to gain the outcome we are expecting.
The Waiting Game. It can just be a short time or we are left to wander through years before we finally achieve what we want and while we are waiting for that beautiful moment, FAITH as well as HOPE shouldn’t leave us. Without faith and hope in our hearts, we can easily be disheartened or can get easily depressed over some failures that come our way in our journey through life.
Our lives have periods of waiting and we cannot escape these from happening. Our modern world can be described as always in the hustle bustle of daily grinds and things are always in a rush. Sometimes we can’t keep up with the highly competitive game. People these days are always in a hurry to get things done and some are quite impatient to get what they want. We are also now a time of “instants” which teaches us to have things at our disposal at the least possible time in order to do the next work in line but devalues the essence of waiting for the right time- when everything is made perfect and the outcome would be of high value.
If we are promised or assured of the best in everything, would we be patient enough to wait for them at the designated Divine Time? It pays to wait for the Perfect Time; for we are more assured of the value of that precious moment as Destiny calls us and conspires with the Universe to give us what we truly deserve in life. If it’s the Right Time for us, nothing and no one can take that away from us for it was intended to be just ours.
What does it take to be a Fearless Wordsmith? It need not necessarily mean my writings should be fierce and unruly for along with the freedom of expression goes the responsibility of the writer to communicate with his readers effectively and fairly, to be able to touch lives and make them feel they are part of the stories, poems that you compose. I consider myself as a modernist writer and poet. I have my own writing style without conforming with the traditional, much like James Joyce’s “Stream Of Consciousness” but with my own twist. I am always left amazed when my constant readers ask me: “Was this piece written for me? I can very well relate to it.” If people can very well “see” or “feel” themselves in your compositions, then you have done your job effectively! Raw and real emotions are the things that embody a good write.
I have always dreamt of becoming a writer even when I was just in my grade school days, being this once shy and quiet lass who prefers to just jot down notes rather than reciting in front of the class which makes me all jittery. I didn’t give up my dreams of becoming a published writer and it came true with the publication of my first international poetry book with a publisher from UK after winning an international competition last 2012. This is my second book and is a special collection of my works that have appeared on my blog site on Life, Love and Relationships, “Seasons and Reflections of The Muse” http://seasons-reflections-of-the-muse.blogspot.com and my All About The Love section in Inner Child The Magazine. You can also get to read some of my most recent poetry compositions along with poem collaborations with fellow foreign poets and my own quotes that have appeared on my Goodreads Author Page
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Greatest Love Quotes
Love, a powerful emotion and choice. It creates strong affection and builds the bonds of relationship. If cultivated well, it starts as overwhelming desire and mellows to a life long endearment and attachment. It embodies the virtues of loyalty, kindness, charity, compassion, and affection. It is so central to who we are, that those that are religious find the most identified of human emotions in God is - Love. And because love is a vital force in cementing interpersonal relationships and is central to who we are, it is also the most common theme in the arts.
At Greatest Love Quotes.com, we want to celebrate all that we call love. The love quotes that we have compiled capture the wide range of how people look at it. From ridicule to rapturous devotion - we find the quotes that put love in perspective. More importantly, we searched far and wide to encapsulate what it means to be human and - love.
Dive into our site and find a love quote that speaks to who and where you are at. Browse our pages and if you have a love quotes of your own to share, please do. You may be featured as one of our celebrated authors!
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Famous Love Quotes
"It is a curious thought, but it is only when
you see people looking ridiculous that you realize just how much you love
"If I had a flower for every time I thought of
you, I could walk in my garden forever."
~Alfred Lord Tennyson
"Love makes the wildest spirit tame, and the
tamest spirit wild."
"The best and most beautiful things in the
world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart."
"I love you, not only for what you are, But for
what I am when I am with you."
"Love reminds you that nothing else
"I don’t wish to be everything to everyone, but
I would like to be something to someone."
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